Jan DeFreitas is a mother of three young children growing up in world of digital media. "We are the foreigners to this land and our children are the natives. But the irony is we have to make our children understand there are repercussions just like in the real world, there are repercussions of what you say and what you do on line or through texting," she said. That reality struck home as DeFreitas was riveted by the Rachel Wade trial. The then 19-year-old was in the middle of a deadly love triangle trial.